FREE

"Jaden, please listen to me!" shouted mom. "What mom? i just want to spend time with my friends, okay. How can i be accepted in the community if you kept on holding me back from going out with them?" Jaden grudgingly answered. "Just let me go!" He shouted while grabbing his back and running away out the house to his friend's car. Once he entered the car, his friends shouted their plan which includes skipping a day of school. Jaden was worried at first, but that thought of not being accepted re-entered his mind and so he pushed away the thoughts and go on with the plan.

Hey, don't you think that this story resembles a little bit of yourself? The young energetic teenagers that has the eagerness to be FREE? Free from the rules of your parents? Free from the boringness of the subjects in school? or probably, free out of the negative thoughts of your community?

1. Free from parents

Yes, I've honestly experienced this too on my life. I've wanted to get out of the rules that my parents gave me such as that i have to have my nap, curfews, lessons and so on. Why? because my friends are telling me that they are having so much fun going out, watching movie, participating in events and more. I was actually tempted to listen to all their reasons yet one question struct me.

Who was born first, my parents or my friends? This might actually seem to be a silly question but this was actually one of the answer to the problem. Okay, yes my parents were born years before my friends does and so this means that they'll have much more life experience and more knowledge about life as a whole. Well then, this means that most of their words will be based by their experience, which i know they'll share the good stuff to their children because they want us to be a better version that they were.

But this have not answered the question on how to be free, right?

yes, that was not the whole answer. The best answer to that would be to "Give FREEDOM for your parents to train you?" huh, really why? Yes, by you giving your parents the ability to get their freedom to train you in time your parents will give you trust and the positive things that you want will be slightly easier to be given. 

Do you guys get it? I hope so, because it can really change your life.

2. Free from school

We do like to be free from school, am i right or am i right?

Well but then there are 2 choices of being free: The "right" free and the "wrong" free. 

The wrong free would be being free not foing your homework, skipping classes or school, not listening to teachers and so on. That will all be categorized as being free in the wrong way because it will lead you to a destruction and failure.

The right kind of free is to let yourself freely learn your lessons. This means that we are free to listen in class, take notes, study for exams. Why? because this freedom has a path, a path where it will take you to being successful in life and applying all the given skills in your daily life.

Well, i definitely want to do the right kind of free. Are you in?

3. Free from the negative thoughts of the community

What does this really mean? Well, do you realize that sometimes in schools people is kind of separated into the 'cool' and the 'geek' ? and when you are in one of the group for too long, you might want to get out, right?

Well, being free from this kind of community will not work if you make yourself do what the community is telling you to do like going to clubs, bullying, trying to look cool and so on. This kind of freedom will once again lead you to problems after problems.

So, how are we suppose to be free? The way for you to be free is to let yourself be your own self. When you let, that kind of freedom to enlighten from yourself than sooner or later people will acknowledge the difference in you and respect it. 

Sayings might come from the left or the right but that happens just because the group of people that are saying those words does not have the courage to let themselves be the best version of their own self.

What you should do to them is not throwing fire with fire but you must come to them and share to them how to be free. 

Well, that's basically what i can share to you all my big lovely family, i really do hope that from now on you can enjoy and live in the right kind of free. 

Happy Monday!

Audelia's Biodata

Audelia

Where I came from, and that is in a land far far away, where imagination runs wild. My father and mother is the king and queen of the realm. Our land is a very dangerous magical place. Filled with ogres, giants, flying monkeys, wicked witches of the south, east, west, and many other dangers. But it was great to fight and have an adventure with my family. We do sword fightings, archeries, flying, and many other activities. But it was a long long long long time ago. 216 years ago. Until we were all banished here in this world. So I'll start off by saying hello to everyone, it is time to reveal my true identity. 

I was born years ago, my mother couldn't make it to the WizHospital so instead i was born in a barn with the horses and chickens. All of my siblings were there. I am the youngest sibling among all. From the oldest is Jack, followed by Val, Kae, Bae, Eva, Mill, Jill, Bill, Maralinda, and finally me. We are a huge family. I was close to Maralinda, because she's the most fun among all. We both love the same thing. Our favorite activity is sword fighting. I was awarded by being the most potential fighter among all of my siblings. I killed a dragon once. Peace of cake. 

Until one snowy night, the wicked witch of the west came and banished all of us in the land and send us to... this world. When the black smoke is covering us, I split from my family and ran as fast as i can, unfortunately i wasn't fast enough, I fell down into the cold water. I was frozen. And dead. At least I think I am.

One morning, I woke up. I was in a room alone with no one aside me. Not even my mother or father or my siblings. I was alone. 

I try to tell people about what happened but no one believed. I was in a different world. With cities and people and no flying monkeys. They had this thing called a GPS where people use it to track locations. I was lost and i have no idea where my family is. They're missing. And that was 16 years ago. 

Now, I started clean and fresh. You might know me, I'm the pianist who composes 123 songs. I composes for famous people now and also worked for movies or TV shows such as Once Upon A Time, Captain America, The Hobbit, Amazing Spiderman and many other movies. I create the music behind it, which is amazing. I never thought that after being a fighter i could be this musical person. But thank God I succeed. At first it took me awhile to be familiar with this world and with the new electronic these days. It was amazing! 

I'm glad I can share some of my past to you all. 

How Do We Overcome Addiction

                In school life, there are always lots of temptation in neglecting assignments to do self-entertainment like go shopping, playing video games, watching TV, etc. which will then regarded them as a troublemaker or embarrassment of the school. Many times we had no control over our feelings and desire to do what we want despite the consequences await us. However, small problems could turn to bigger problems that affect our life badly. What happen if you don’t get accepted to the university you’ve always wanted although your grades proved that you’re capable and it’s just that you always neglected your homework? What if people don’t accept you in their team although you are genius and you can do everything except the fact that you are too lazy? How can you succeed if you get easily swept away? These things occurred due to addiction.

                  Addiction is the state that you have desire to do things continuously by neglecting the surrounding and focusing only on your entertainment. For example, watching TV, smoking, playing video games overtime are considered to be an addiction. For girls, they tend to have an addiction or motives of being skinny, through their set of minds, they have fully dedicated to fasting or eat less, which then changed the amount of their consumption. Before we are in a state of irredeemable and incapable of redeeming one self, these writing would tell the steps or tricks to overcome addiction.

                  First, get a substitute, like substituting smoke for candies, it would reduce the amount of smoke consumed everyday. And later, through perseverance and dedication to get better, hopefully smoke would be thrown out from your life. Imagine of how effective eating candies must have been that makes you forget the motive of smoking. I therefore believe, with effective substitute for every addiction, would clear path and make a new changes.

                  Furthermore, getting a consultation from experienced teacher, families, surrounding would open up minds for changes. During hard times, as we may all know, human are social creatures that needs teaching and motivation, through them we would learn more and fix our own problems. However if we did not know what’s our problems, then how can we change our hearts?

                  Lastly, praying to god to get blessings and protection in god would definitely makes everything easier because I believe god will clear every obstacles in our way as long as we believe and sincerely trust Him. Do you ever feel that you feel calmer and relaxed after talking and praying to god asking for guidance? Do you admit that you need god to protect you?

                  In conclusion, we can’t possibly withstand the thread of addiction, however through the power of dedication and god with the cheering from surroundings, everything is possible. Perhaps in no time, you did not realize that you’ve been lifted from all those addiction.

Jason's Biodata

Lives on only 2 loaves of bread each week with only having muddy water to drink in the refugee camps of Syria. Spends his days scavenging what is left in the now ruined and largely abandoned city of Khalidiyah while working to reestablish a functional society from and for those who the government have turned their backs on. Whoever stumbles upon this message we humbly request your aid: water, food, manpower, clothing, anything. We'll take whatever you could spare.

Note: We do not accept is Syrian Pounds. Also if you are interested in our local commodities (firearms, classified documents of the current Syrian government, etc.) we are open to trade however we only accept valuable metals (gold, silver, etc.) as trade medium.